Guys (charlie and penn)
I suspect you are indeed fighting to agree. I'm not convinced by the "equal front weights" theory, but I know my knowledge of the effect of not having a truly independent rear end is limited, so I'm not making a call on that either way.
However lets say we are setting up for equal front weights, and as per Penn's worked example, the driver's side has more weight on it, mostly due to the driver weight. Of course we have to dial that out by transferring weight between the diagonals.
Put simply if we go to either the front right or rear left and increase the length of the damper body beyond the spring (by adjusting the perches so as to apparently compress the spring), that will cause that diagonal (FR-RL) to bear more of the weight, in the same way as if you put a floor tile under either of those tyres.
Once you have done that enough to equalise the front weights, you will have:
a) the two front springs at equal compressed lengths
b) the right (drivers) damper with more body showing under the perch than on the left damper.
Obviously you pick how you share these adjustments to give you the rake you want, and you may lengthen one side while shortening the other.
Talk of preload always seems to end up in bit of confusion, when you generally only do it to avoid the springs becoming loose over large decompressions like the mountain at Cadwell.
So unless I missed something I think you were both saying basically that, but with different words and maybe slightly different points of view
Help?
Martyn