The most relevant thing when discussing paddle clutch plates is the material they are faced with. The options are Sintered, Cerrametallic or Organic. When I first fitted a paddle plate I fitted a sintered plate (cause it was a "racing" clutch. This WAS difficult when moving off from a standing start (traffic lights etc) but I got used to it. I subsequently fitted a cerrametalic plate and the difference was marked. It is much closer (but not the same) to a "road" clutch and in my estimation quite acceptable for road driving (once you have got used to it) I would guess that organic plates are even nearer to road plates but will also wear more quickly.
So you really need to define which plate you are going to consider if you want meaningful comments
As far as the driving experience goes the paddle plate has no springs in it to take up any shock when the drive engages. This does not feel as bad as it reads however....
You can get a paddle plate with springs, but this seems neither fish nor fowl to me....
As with most upgrades the main "advantage" of a paddle plate is its reduced weight. Because it is lighter it allows the engine to spin up more freely