He says, ignition off, sidelights on, and the new, high-level, lights (with sidelight function) go off when he steps on the brake. What is happening is that the non-powered, brake light circuit is providing an alternate path to ground for the side light voltage. Not quite shorting it to ground but enough to lower the voltage below the LEDs active threshold, extinguishing the light. You could wire in diodes but, really, does it matter that much? You have sidelight function and brake light function and when are you ever parked up, sidelights on, ignition off and your foot on the brake?